Remain Out Of Jealousy, Anger, and Revenge

 

Stay out of the JAR – Jealousy, Anger and Revenge. The three most destructive emotions we need to regulate in ourselves to live great lives. We are having more and more today, than in any time in history, yet, along with material prosperity, Jealousy is on the rise, leading people to becoming angry and many succumbing to revenge....

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Getting Along Well With Oneself And Others Is The Crucial Ingredient For A Happy And Prosperous Life

 

Building a strong relationship with oneself is the first step. In my seminars, I ask participants to close their eyes for a minute and visualize The five faces. After the minute is over, I ask them to write down the names of faces they have visualized. In most of the cases the participants visualize others, be it their parents, relatives, friends, co-workers, but seldom themselves....

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The Mind Works When It Is Open

 

Alexis Leon was a software engineer with Tata Consultancy services who met with a road accident, which left him paralyzed waist down.Post accident he was bed ridden for sometime and went through agonies associated with such an accident. But when you prepare your mind to think how to overcome the challenges, it is able to endure the unendurable, accept the unacceptable and move on to do the best with what you have left....

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Catching your child’s potential early on

 

We all can learn what to do and how to live better lives from great sportsmen like Abhinav Bindra. And also from his parents, for they played a major role in his success....

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Listening is the first step in communication

 

A mother was walking with her son. Soon, they came across a street performer who was about to start his performance, so they took a place and started enjoying his performance....

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Is your life interesting or just irritating?

 

Life can be an interesting experience or everything in it can be a source of irritation, the choice is ours. We are primed by instincts to treat anything new or unfamiliar to be irritating....

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Self-discipline makes all the difference

 

This years’ Men’s Wimbledon final was one of the best clashes in the history of tennis. It lasted four hours and forty-eight minutes. Nadal was up in the first two sets, Federer, the grass court king, hit back by winning the next two, and the final set went down to the wire. In the end it was Nadal who won his first Wimbledon title....

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The power of choice destroys all stresses

 

One option is no choice, two options is a dilemma, three options is a choice. Realise that we have choices about where we spend our time. Most of our stress comes from the fact that we feel that we have no choice. We make everything in our lives a ‘must’ to complete. Remember, there are always at least three options for every situation. But it’s only when we realise these options that we begin to live life by choice....

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The formula to turn all your dreams into reality

 

Recently I was conducting a seminar, ‘Creativity and Positive thinking for Success’. There were over eighty participants for the daylong seminar....

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We are judged by the way we speak

 

Once upon a time an old sage sat meditating under a banyan tree. He was blind. A man came up and said: “Hey old man, did you hear anyone passing this way?” The sage replied, “No my good man, I did not hear anyone”...

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