Catching your child’s potential early on
We all can learn what to do and how to live better lives from great sportsmen like Abhinav Bindra. And also from his parents, for they played a major role in his success.
Like in shooting, firing without aiming will not lead to hitting the target, in life; activity without direction will not result in improvement. In fact, often we indulge in activity without thinking about the direction. Thus, instead of adding, we end up reducing value in our lives and creating conflicts.
Abhinav’s parents identified early what their son had a talent for, and did everything to ensure that he focused on and pursued shooting.
A crucial element of successful parenting is to identify as early as possible the unique strengths of their child, and help him or her develop in that direction. Often, parents are lazy, and only start thinking about what the child’s career when the child is in his or her late teens.
All children give indications about what they like doing and what they are good at early on. When Bindra was seven years old, he put a bottle on a person’s head, and shot at it with an air gun pellet. The incident convinced Abhinav’s parents about his strength.
They created a conviction in Abhinav that shooting was his sweet spot.
Though born and raised in a rich family, Abhinav lived a disciplined life, leveraging the resources he had at his disposal, instead of abusing it and creating nuisance for self and others.
Bindra’s annual training cost about Rs 1,00,00,000. Abhinav is a great role model, to the growing number of children in affluent families in India. When children of affluent families abuse the things at their disposal instead of adding value, it gives a bad impression, especially to youngsters from middle and lower middle class. Children of affluent families have the responsibility to live well, and work hard, so that middle class children are not exposed to the ill-use of wealth. For India to become great, the children of middle class need to live in discipline, only then will they move up, and India will become a better country.
Hats off to Abhinav for he has started the India’s run for gold medals in the Olympics. Let’s hope we will all work hard to get many more in the years to come.